Divorce

What is the Holiday Pause?

Published on: December 3, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

What is the Holiday Pause?

The holidays are the time for family get-togethers and parties. It is a season of joy and expectation, especially for children. Many couples who are considering divorce decide to put their relationship issues on hold until after December. This period is often called the holiday pause. It simply means that you are waiting until the new year to make important decisions or critical changes. Is the holiday pause necessary, and if so, what can you do to make this time better and easier?

Why Wait Until After the Holidays?

What are the 3 Cs of Divorce?

Published on: November 12, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

What are the 3 Cs of Divorce?

Every year, more than half a million divorces occur in the United States. While you begin your marriage believing it will last forever, that is not always the case. Divorce is one of the most stressful events you will experience in your life. It can be even more difficult for you and your family when the situation is contentious. There are some things you can do to make divorce easier and less challenging. If you follow the 3 Cs, you can help resolve your divorce more quickly and with less acrimony.

Communication

Avoid These Five Separation Mistakes

Published on: November 5, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Avoid These Five Separation Mistakes

When you and your spouse have decided to end your marriage, the first step in North Carolina is to separate. You must live apart from each other for a year before you can get a divorce. You do not need to have a legal separation, but it can be beneficial to have a legal document that guides your separation. A knowledgeable divorce attorney will answer your questions and help you through the separation and divorce.

Moving Out Without a Separation Agreement

Make the Most of Your Divorce Consultation: Questions to Ask Your Attorney

Published on: August 13, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Make the Most of Your Divorce Consultation: Questions to Ask Your Attorney

The decision to separate and divorce can be fraught with questions and concerns. This is often one of the most stressful times in your life, yet you need to understand the process and what to expect as you move forward with your life. A consultation with a qualified divorce attorney is the first meeting with legal professionals and allows you to learn some basic information and get answers to general questions. The consultation may be in person or sometimes by phone or video chat.

Why You Need an Initial Consultation

Coping With Divorce Anxiety

Published on: July 9, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Coping With Divorce Anxiety

Divorce can be difficult, and even those who want to end their marriage can be plagued with stress and anxiety. Coping with the divorce process requires you to go through a variety of emotions. At the same time that you are dealing with a tremendously personal loss, you are also helping your children with their emotions. In addition, you are dealing with financial issues that can make the future uncertain. During this time of turmoil, you need to learn how to best resolve issues and create a new family norm.

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Technology in Divorce

Published on: June 25, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Technology in Divorce

We use technology every day and in every part of our lives. Technology is constantly changing and improving, with new advances being made all the time. Technology can play a role in your divorce from start to finish, and may either help or hinder your particular situation. It is helpful to understand the way computers, apps, and advanced technology are used in the divorce process.

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Nesting: What is it and Should We Do it?

Published on: June 4, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Nesting: What is it and Should We Do it?

When couples divorce, it can take a toll on everyone in the family, especially the children. Parents want to do everything they can to make divorce easier and less stressful for their kids. One option to consider is nesting. Nesting is a concept that gives children a stable environment and may be less traumatic for them when the family dynamics change. Some celebrity couples have made nesting more popular. It may be something you and your spouse want to explore as you begin going through the uncoupling process.

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Is Your Divorce High Conflict or Low Conflict?

Published on: May 21, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Is Your Divorce High Conflict or Low Conflict?

Going through a divorce can be one of the most stressful situations in your life. Even though a divorce may be considered “no-fault”, it still may have some challenges. Divorce almost always has some degree of conflict and may be classified as high or low conflict. A knowledgeable divorce attorney will help you navigate divorce and help you reduce the conflict that may be happening.

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Is It Best to File For Divorce First?

Published on: May 7, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Is It Best to File For Divorce First?

When you get married, you do not expect the union to end. Unfortunately, sometimes two people don’t get along and cannot make their marriage work. In North Carolina, the law allows for no-fault divorce. One of the important requirements for obtaining a divorce is that couples must live apart for at least a year before they may seek to dissolve the marriage. Many people wonder whether it is beneficial to file for divorce first. An experienced Charlotte divorce attorney will guide you through the process.

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What is Conscious Co-Parenting?

Published on: April 30, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

What is Conscious Co-Parenting?

Divorce can take its toll on all members of the family. Parents often worry that divorce will cause their children irreparable emotional harm. Parents need to be mindful of how they handle the many issues revolving around divorce so they make the process as easy for children as possible. One way to help kids through the separation and divorce period and beyond is with a technique called conscious co-parenting. Co-parenting is an arrangement of custody in which both parents share time with their children.

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