Charlotte Divorce Lawyer Blog

Coping With Divorce Anxiety

Published on: July 9, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Coping With Divorce Anxiety

Divorce can be difficult, and even those who want to end their marriage can be plagued with stress and anxiety. Coping with the divorce process requires you to go through a variety of emotions. At the same time that you are dealing with a tremendously personal loss, you are also helping your children with their emotions. In addition, you are dealing with financial issues that can make the future uncertain. During this time of turmoil, you need to learn how to best resolve issues and create a new family norm.

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Gray Divorce on the Rise

Published on: July 2, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Gray Divorce on the Rise

The number of people getting divorced later in life is on the rise. According to a recent article published by the Institute for Family Studies, the number of divorces of those over the age of 65 is going up while the overall divorce rate is trending downward. There are a number of reasons why couples may choose to divorce later in life. Gray divorce can be challenging because the years together make property and asset distribution more complex. An experienced divorce attorney will guide you through the process.

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Technology in Divorce

Published on: June 25, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Technology in Divorce

We use technology every day and in every part of our lives. Technology is constantly changing and improving, with new advances being made all the time. Technology can play a role in your divorce from start to finish, and may either help or hinder your particular situation. It is helpful to understand the way computers, apps, and advanced technology are used in the divorce process.

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How Can I Adopt My Stepchild In North Carolina?

Published on: June 18, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

How Can I Adopt My Stepchild In North Carolina?

Stepfamilies are common today, and about 1300 stepfamilies are formed every day in the United States. Approximately 40% of families in the U.S. are blended. A blended family is one that includes at least one child from a previous relationship or marriage. Most often, children reside primarily with one parent following divorce. When that parent decides to remarry, the new partner becomes a stepparent to the children. A stepparent may wish to adopt their stepchildren and become a legal parent to the child.

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Sole Child Custody in North Carolina

Published on: June 11, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Sole Child Custody in North Carolina

When parents divorce, one of their main concerns is often child custody. Both parents are generally part of their child’s lives going forward, but they need to iron out the details. In many cases, the children will reside primarily with one parent while the other parent has regular visitation. Parents need to understand custody in North Carolina and learn how to seek the type of living arrangements that are best for their children. A knowledgeable Charlotte divorce attorney will help with matters of child custody.

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Nesting: What is it and Should We Do it?

Published on: June 4, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Nesting: What is it and Should We Do it?

When couples divorce, it can take a toll on everyone in the family, especially the children. Parents want to do everything they can to make divorce easier and less stressful for their kids. One option to consider is nesting. Nesting is a concept that gives children a stable environment and may be less traumatic for them when the family dynamics change. Some celebrity couples have made nesting more popular. It may be something you and your spouse want to explore as you begin going through the uncoupling process.

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What to Include in a Parenting Plan in North Carolina

Published on: May 28, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

What to Include in a Parenting Plan in North Carolina

When parents divorce, they have an obligation to continue to provide for their children’s needs and spend time with their children. A parenting plan is the ideal option to provide both parents with the framework for how to parent together after they divorce. There are several types of parenting plans. The plan is a good way to promote harmonious parenting that will make life after divorce easier for the whole family.

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Is Your Divorce High Conflict or Low Conflict?

Published on: May 21, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Is Your Divorce High Conflict or Low Conflict?

Going through a divorce can be one of the most stressful situations in your life. Even though a divorce may be considered “no-fault”, it still may have some challenges. Divorce almost always has some degree of conflict and may be classified as high or low conflict. A knowledgeable divorce attorney will help you navigate divorce and help you reduce the conflict that may be happening.

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What is Silent Divorce?

Published on: May 14, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

What is Silent Divorce?

Marriage always has its ups and downs. As couples navigate their lives together, they often come across some rough patches. Many times, partners are able to work through their differences and get their marriage back on track. Other times, the relationship continues to degrade and spiral into a place where married couples turn into roommates. Sometimes, couples continue their marriage in this way.

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Is It Best to File For Divorce First?

Published on: May 7, 2025 | On behalf of Arnold & Smith, PLLC

Is It Best to File For Divorce First?

When you get married, you do not expect the union to end. Unfortunately, sometimes two people don’t get along and cannot make their marriage work. In North Carolina, the law allows for no-fault divorce. One of the important requirements for obtaining a divorce is that couples must live apart for at least a year before they may seek to dissolve the marriage. Many people wonder whether it is beneficial to file for divorce first. An experienced Charlotte divorce attorney will guide you through the process.

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