Dangerous Myths About Prenuptial Agreements

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Most engaged couples are not thinking that their marriage will end in divorce. However, many couples enter into prenuptial agreements to protect their assets in the event the marriage should end in divorce.


Law-offices-Charlotte-Monroe-Mooresville-Prenuptial-agreement-Lawyer-300x218North Carolina law defines a prenuptial agreement as “an agreement between prospective spouses made in contemplation of marriage and to be effective upon marriage.” A prenuptial agreement can be an excellent tool for couples to feel comfortable that their assets are safe in the event of marital problems. Even though a prenuptial agreement can be an excellent tool for couples getting married, there are many myths surrounding entering into a prenuptial agreement.


Myth 1: A prenuptial agreement implies that your marriage will fail.


A lot of people think that a prenuptial agreement implies that your marriage will fail and that you are anticipating divorce at the outset of a marriage. This is simply untrue. Entering into prenuptial agreements can engage couples in a discussion about their financial situations that they might not have had otherwise. It is smart to know the financial situation of your partner, and that discussion could build a solid foundation for a marriage to thrive.


Myth 2: Prenuptial agreements are only for the wealthy.


Another myth surrounding prenuptial agreements is that only those who are extremely wealthy should use them. A prenuptial agreement can be useful for any ordinary person as well as the wealthy. Regardless of the amount of wealth of either spouse, a prenuptial agreement is a safe way to discuss finances and what will happen in the future should marital problems arise.


Myth 3: Prenuptial agreements are rarely upheld by courts.


A prenuptial agreement is treated like a contract between two parties. Yes, there are situations in which a court may invalidate the prenuptial agreement, just like any contract. However, a court will invalidate the agreement only when it has been improperly prepared. Prenuptial agreements prepared without an attorney can contain errors that invalidate them. Additionally, agreements entered into by a party under duress will be deemed invalid in court. A contract must be entered into willingly; one spouse cannot pressure the other to sign a prenuptial agreement. However, with the aid of an experienced attorney, a prenuptial agreement can be properly entered into and upheld by the court.


Myth 4: Prenuptial agreements have no use outside of divorce.


While a prenuptial agreement is most often used in a divorce proceeding, there are other situations outside of a divorce in which a prenuptial agreement could be useful, such as for estate planning purposes. A spouse could potentially upturn a well thought out estate plan if there is no prenuptial agreement. Additionally, a prenuptial agreement could be useful when there are children from prior marriages involved or certain heirlooms that have a specified recipient.


If you are considering a prenuptial agreement, you need an attorney who will advocate for your rights. The skilled attorneys at Arnold & Smith, PLLC are dedicated to ensuring that any agreement you enter into is equitable and fair. As such, our experienced family law attorneys want to make this transition into a new chapter of life as easy and painless as possible. If you find yourself facing a complicated family law matter, then you need the help of experienced family-law attorneys in Charlotte, Lake Norman, or our new office in Monroe (expected to open early 2019). Please contact Arnold & Smith, PLLC today at (704) 370-2828 or find additional resources here.







The family law practice group at Arnold & Smith, PLLC includes two Board-Certified Family Law specialists and one Child Welfare Law specialist, as well as several attorneys with many years of family law experience that are committed to providing a powerful voice to individuals facing the often-tumultuous issues in this area of law. The range of issues our family law clients may be facing include pre- and post-nuptial agreements; separation agreements; post-separation support; child support (both temporary and permanent); absolute divorce; divorce from bed and board; military divorce; equitable distribution of assets; child custody (both temporary and permanent); retirement benefits and divorce; alimony and spousal support; adoption; and emancipation. Because this area of the law is usually emotionally charged and complicated, the family law attorneys at Arnold & Smith, PLLC act with the utmost dedication to ensure that each client understands his or her options, and then act to achieve the best result possible for that client’s particular situation.







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