The Engagement is Off – Do I Need to Return the Engagement Ring?
The day you get engaged is only eclipsed by your wedding day. Your engagement is the beginning of your new life together and the start of planning for the big day. The engagement ring is one of the most well-known symbols of love in our society. The engagement ring is a way to show that you are betrothed and that you are in a committed relationship. Unfortunately, if you end your engagement, the wedding will not take place. If that happens, do you need to return the engagement ring?
Gift in Contemplation of Marriage
An engagement ring is generally a gift made in contemplation of marriage. As such, the ring does not technically transfer ownership unless the marriage takes place. The marriage must take place to complete the transaction. The circumstances of the gift can make a difference in the ownership of the ring. For instance, if a partner gets down on one knee to propose and puts a ring on the partner’s finger, the ring is clearly a gift in contemplation of marriage. However, it is not always that clear.
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Who Broke the Engagement?
Sometimes, the way the relationship ended could have an impact on whether you should give the ring back. If the person wearing the ring is the one who calls off the engagement, it is usually considered proper etiquette to return the ring. After all, you ended the relationship and are no longer going to use the ring for its intended use. If the other party calls off the wedding, they may ask for the ring back. Whether you give it back is a personal choice, but you must keep in mind that the other person may be the rightful owner.
What if the Ring Was a Gift?
Sometimes, the ring could have been given without a marriage proposal. In that case, the ring was actually a gift and does not have to be returned. For example, someone gives a ring to you as a birthday gift. If the ring is clearly an engagement ring, and it is given as a beginning to the engagement, it is most likely still a gift in contemplation of marriage. In some cases, it may not be clear that the ring is for engagement. That could make it easier to prove that the ring belongs exclusively to the recipient.
What Should You Do With Your Engagement Ring?
If you are certain that the ring was given to you as engagement jewelry, it is likely best to return the ring. Before you return it, you should make sure to document the return so there is no question later. One way to document the return is through a text message or email that states that you returned the ring and that your former partner received it. If your partner tells you to keep the ring, you should also put that in writing in case there is a change of heart later. You and your partner may need to distribute other property that you purchased in preparation for your wedding.
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