Charlotte Divorce Attorney Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “What does uncontested divorce mean?” When Fats Domino sings about finding his thrill on Blueberry Hill, you can almost hear in the mournful piano chords he plays that descend into the chorus that though his…
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Therapist lists Do’s and Don’ts for couples with children going through divorce
Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “What can I do to gain custody of my child in North Carolina?” Finding advice on divorce is like finding advice on dieting or exercise: it is everywhere. Whether you through an expert’s “ten tips,” another expert’s “twenty…
Attorney says divorce court may be the worst place to look for Lady Justice
Charlotte Divorce Attorney Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question ” I’m considering separating from my spouse; what actions should I refrain from doing?” A spouse’s cruel words and outrageous treatment drove you to a divorce attorney in the first place, but now the divorce…
Soon-to-be divorced, divorcing or recently divorced? Beware the tax man!
Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “How long does getting a divorce take?” That special time of year is looming—April 15. That is not the date on which Santa Claus comes tumbling down the chimney with a slew of nice gifts to leave under…
Three-parent babies could alter humanity, child custody
Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “What can I do to gain custody of my child in North Carolina?” Custody battles of the future may involve battles between litigants that are—in all our legal history—utterly foreign. That is because, for the first time in…
Parties in custody battles should think hard before seeking to offer child testimony
Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “What can I do to gain custody of my child in North Carolina?” In North Carolina, the ultimate arbiter of custody is the District Court judge. The District Court judge is vested, by statute, with the authority to…
Divorce mediator shares what she wishes she had known before her own divorce
Charlotte Divorce Attorney Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question ” I’m considering separating from my spouse; what actions should I refrain from doing?” A longtime divorce mediator thought she was as prepared as anyone could be when the storms that brought on her own…
Cutting divorce expenses means compromising and choosing the right advocate
Charlotte Divorce Attorney Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question ” Is there some property that the judge cannot divide? Any litigant looking for something less than the proverbial blood wants to spend as little as possible getting from here to there. Some litigants are…
Divorce party lets exes blow their marriage mementos to smithereens
Board certified family law specialist Matt Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “How long does getting a divorce take?” Getting to the point of wanting a divorce may have taken years. Getting the divorce may have taken years. Now the divorce is over. What to do?…
Mediator says those considering divorce need to face the music
Charlotte Divorce Attorney Matthew R. Arnold of Arnold & Smith, PLLC answers the question “My wife and I are not getting along If I leave the house, can she get me for abandonment?” A well-known divorce mediator is encouraging people who are considering divorce to dispense with some common…